How to be a successful findomme.

A lot of people have asked me how I’ve been so successful as a findomme and it really comes down to a few key things. I’m naturally dominant and I also have a knack for reading people and knowing what they want/need. I’m also very good at being assertive and knowing how to get what I want. I’m going to share some tips with you that have helped me be successful.

1. Be confident in your role as a findomme. You are the one in charge and you need to be confident in that. Your submissive is looking to you for guidance and direction. If you’re not confident, they will pick up on that and it will make it harder for them to trust and submit to you.

2. Be assertive. Know what you want and go after it. Your submissive will respect and admire you for this.

3. Be aware of your submissive’s triggers and know how to push their buttons. This is where your keen observations skills come in handy. By knowing what turns them on and gets them going, you can more easily control them and keep them under your thumb.

4. Be demanding. Your submissive wants to please you and make you happy. If you’re not demanding, they may start to question why they’re doing this. It’s important to keep them on their toes and always guessing what you’ll want next.

5. Be creative. Find new and interesting ways to keep your submissive entertained. If they’re bored, they’re likely to rebel. Keep things fresh and exciting by coming up with new ideas and tasks for them to do.

6. Be consistent. It’s important to be consistent with your rules and expectations. If you’re all over the place, your submissive will get confused and frustrated. They need to know what you expect of them at all times.

7. Be strict. This ties in with being consistent. If you’re not strict, your submissive will start to push the boundaries and see how far they can go. It’s important to keep a firm hand and not let them get away with anything.

8. Be patient. Rome wasn’t built in a day and neither is a successful findomme/sub relationship. It takes time to build trust and Authority. Don’t expect things to happen overnight.

9. Be open to feedback. Your submissive will have suggestions and ideas of their own. It’s important to listen to them and take their feedback into consideration. They know what they’re talking about and they might have some good ideas that you hadn’t thought of.

10. Be yourself. This is probably the most important tip of all. You need to be true to yourself. If you’re not comfortable with something, don’t do it. Your submissive will sense if you’re not being genuine and it will ruin the dynamic between you.

By following these tips, you’ll be well on your way to becoming a successful findomme. Just remember to be yourself and have fun with it. It should be enjoyable for both you and your submissive. Click here for more

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